Following Jeffrey Dahmer's imprisonment, his parents, Lionel Dahmer and Joyce Flint, questioned if they could've prevented the murders of 17 men and boys.Convicted serial killer Jeffrey Dahmer was serving life in prison when he was violently slain by fellow inmate Christopher Scarver on Nov. 28, 1994. Though many rejoiced at the news of Dahmer's murder, his father, Lionel Dahmer, was heartbroken to learn that his eldest son was dead.
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"When I found out that Jeff was murdered, it was just devastating," he said in Investigation Discovery's "Jeffrey Dahmer: Mind of a Monster." "It affected me very gravely.Like the families of Dahmer's own victims, Lionel and his ex-wife, Joyce "Rocky" Flint, would mourn their son for the rest of their lives. What Did Jeffrey Dahmer’s Parents Say About Him?
Though Lionel was horrified by his son's crimes, he often questioned whether he and his ex-wife were to blame for Jeffrey's violent disposition. In his March 1994 memoir "A Father's Story," Lionel explained that he felt he could've been a more engaging father, admitting that he knew Jeffrey was an odd kid, but he chose to ignore those qualities, according to the Los Angeles Times.
There were other possible explanations, too. "I considered all kinds of things. Was it environmental, genetic? Was it, perhaps, medications that were taken at the time of — you know, in the first trimester? Was it the effect of, you know, the popular subject now, media violence?" he said on the "Oprah Winfrey Show" in 1994.
Lionel added in a 1994 interview with Larry King Live that he was unaware of Jeffrey had been collecting roadkill and killing animals since his youth. "If I had known about the roadkill, that would have been a red flag," he stated. "I would have done something immediately, intervened."
Despite Jeffrey's crimes — he was convicted of murdering 15 men and confessed to murdering two others — the father said he felt bad for his son, who he believed was suffering from mental health disorders. I still love my son. I’ll always stick by him — I always have," he shared. That being said, Lionel admitted that he uses an alias on occasion. He explained to Larry King in 1994, "The only thing is when we go out, sometimes we'll give a different name so that — you know, at a restaurant, for example, so that we don't cause a lot of people to change — you know, to move their heads around and look, and, Oh...'"
Lionel's last recorded interview was for the 2020 docuseries "Jeffrey Dahmer: Mind of a Monster.Though Lionel was outspoken about his love for Jeffrey and repeatedly participated in televised interviews, Joyce was more private and sought to live away from the public eye. She reportedly turned down a $10,000 offer for an interview, despite her meager living in Fresno, California, the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel reported.
In the years leading up to Jeffrey's murder, Joyce spoke with him at least once a week, she told the Journal Sentinel. It was during one of these calls, Joyce said, that he reportedly told her he was relieved to be in prison. I'd be afraid what I'd do if I weren't locked up,'" she remembered him saying. Joyce felt immense guilt for Jeffrey's actions, once telling Journal Sentinel columnist Bill Sanz that she felt she'd be "tormented in agony for eternity."
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